Reference

Psalm 32:1, Matthew 18:35, Matthew 6:9-15, Luke 11:5-13,
What Does It Cost To Forgive?

 The struggle to forgive is not what destroys us. It is the settled position in our hearts that we will not forgive.

“This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart." Matthew 18:35